Question for the married guys

savagegarrick · Posted: Oct 19, 2008 7:55 pm Post subject: Question for the married guys

O.k, so I been married for 5 years now. 5 LONG years. And the last couple the wife has said "I want my own bed/room." I say shut up and go to bed. Personally I think we should sleep in the same bed for our whole life. She's telling me on a couple of her mommy/clothing forums that many women have their own beds or bedrooms. And a few are saying it's too uncommon for a couple to sleep in different beds/rooms. Who does this?

cheapskate · Backside 180 Joined: 09 Sep 2008 Posts: 1424 City: Baytown

savagegarrick, Im not married, but it doesnt sound right

integrity640 · Kickflip Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 2866 City: Ocala

savagegarrick damn bro, id say let her remodel a room to her liking or somethin, but not that....ive never heard of that. But theres also this bitchly sweet thing called netnanny for those forums hahaha

jonnyUTAH · Backside 180 Joined: 27 Aug 2004 Posts: 1951

Screw that!! No way.... Maybe after like 50 years of marriage, uncontrollable bowels and a snoring problem, but my Lithuania Grandparents slept in the same bed until my Grandfather died. Keep it old school and keep it real.

integrity640 · Kickflip Joined: 30 Oct 2004 Posts: 2866 City: Ocala

ps not married, just
my 2cents

Le Jalapeno · Guest

Her own bathroom maybe
her own bed? chickity china the chinese chicken no

I'm not married but IMEO she shouldn't have any say in anything and she should be making you dinner

taku · Kickflip Joined: 10 Mar 2007 Posts: 2868 City: Central FL

How many children do you have?

I am friends with a particular married couple (knew the dad for years before he met his wife) and they have 2 children now and the mom insists on sleeping in a different bedroom since the birth of the kids. Apparently it's not uncommon, but my first instinct is to say the marriage is failing and this is her way of distancing herself. Then again, maybe there's another reason?

Uidzero and I have been dating 9 years this Halloween (almost twice your marriage) but no children and the thought of having another bedroom where I can sleep without him hasn't crossed my mind, though I can see the validity of needing a good night's rest if you kick or something..

What is her reasoning for the other bedroom? Do you both routinely have sex and act like a loving couple etc? Or do you think something else is going on?

jonnyUTAH · Backside 180 Joined: 27 Aug 2004 Posts: 1951

sounds like a sign to me.....

caprice sun · Pop Shuvit Joined: 16 Jul 2008 Posts: 140 City: Sweetwater

personally i wouldnt care, i like my freedom when i sleep Very Happy

we can do the dirty, than she can leave... sounds perfect haha Twisted Evil

Le Jalapeno · Guest

caprice sun, yeah, but waking up next to the one you love is a pretty good way to start your day

taku, does that feeling wear off after 9 years?

if not, then my point is valid, she is sleeping in your bed, extra bathroom optional Smash

Raven · Posted: Oct 19, 2008 9:53 pm Post subject:

the less time she spends in your bed, the less

keep that a$$ uder raps homey Smash

Evan71 · Posted: Oct 19, 2008 10:36 pm Post subject:

Raven, word Laughing

taku · Kickflip Joined: 10 Mar 2007 Posts: 2868 City: Central FL

taku · Kickflip Joined: 10 Mar 2007 Posts: 2868 City: Central FL

Le Jalapeno, I have a joke you'll like.

Why do women have small feet?
So they can stand closer to the sink and stove Wink

BTW for the record, telling your beotch to get in the kitchen and do the dishes doesn't result in good things so don't get the wrong idea you youngin's! Very Happy

-=AlexXx=- · Posted: Oct 19, 2008 11:22 pm Post subject:

sounds like a failing marriage to me.....

Evan71 · Posted: Oct 19, 2008 11:33 pm Post subject:

taku, really i thought it worked like a charm

taku · Kickflip Joined: 10 Mar 2007 Posts: 2868 City: Central FL

That depends on what you're offering in trade for said efforts Very Happy

t-rex · Backside 180 Joined: 24 Jun 2007 Posts: 2007 City: Denver

savagegarrick, oh man, i'm sorry to hear this... i know it's been rough... but i wasn't sure how bad...

call me when you get a chance, this doesn't sound good, not coming from her... but then maybe she's still dealing with it all... i know she hates the work schedule and all.

i'll be back in the county december 16th, let me buy you lunch, and talk more about this.

don't tell her, but we'll be praying for yall. Wink

fastgreens · Kickflip Joined: 29 Dec 2007 Posts: 3563 City: baytown

i'd feel strange if my wife wanted her own bed/bedroom... i can't sleep without her next to me.

Mr. Top Hat · Dead Joined: 29 Aug 2004 Posts: 5818

what if there are no marriage problems and she just wants her own bed to sleep in?

you know those situations that are actually very simple but everyone over thinks them and creates a problem when there never really was a problem to begin with...?